6 questions and answers about sexual dysfunction and premature ejaculation for men
Sexual Dysfunction and premature ejaculation in Tantra Massage for men is still a new subject and some people are still shy when it comes to seeking information, but what many do not even imagine is that tantric massage, a therapeutic tool linked to sexuality, improves performance and can help most of the men to heal their bodies.
I have elaborated on some frequently asked questions about how tantric massage can help and heal sexual dysfunction and premature ejaculations, and also make a man relate more confidently.
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1- What are the problems that male clients report before the session?
A big number of men seek Tantric Therapy in search of treatment for some sexual dysfunction, especially premature ejaculation. But there are also some cases of erectile impotence and orgasmic impotence, better known as anorgasmia (absence or difficulty having an orgasm).
Although most people think that anorgasmia only affects women, it actually affects men too, although many people don’t even know that they don’t experience orgasm.
There are those who come in search of self-knowledge, to get in deeper contact with themselves and also to develop sexual energy, which is the very energy of life, which makes us move, love, eat, desire, create, in short, it is the energy that makes us live. Others want to “up grade” their love relationship, because with tantric massage the couple develops other forms of pleasure, strengthens complicity and rapport.
In that case, they usually come with their partner. There are still those who complain of a lot of anxiety and stress, which are logically reflected in the love relationship. But they say, at first, that they are stressed and anxious.
2- Can authentic tantric massage help with sexual impotence?
Yes. Authentic Tantric Massage can treat impotence whenever there are psychological causes such as repression, negative beliefs about sex, fear of surrender and vulnerability, traumas and emotional blockages.
However, if the causes are physiological, it is a case for medical treatment, although it is highly advisable to have tantric massage sessions, and some doctors already indicate this, because there will always be emotional damage arising from impotence. It is also indicated for the treatment of other male-female sexual and hormonal dysfunctions, removing breathing and energy blockages, releasing emotions retained in the body, reframing negative experience memories, activating hormone production, strengthening and toning the genitals with specific manoeuvres for this.
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3- What kind of stimulus is done? How does the tantric massage treatment work?
The treatment is defined from the information that the interactor gives me, so I always encourage saying the reason why they are looking for tantric massage, it is important for me to direct them to the appropriate treatment.
Each session it was made especially for everyone, from basic to advanced levels, and the complete experience only happens when the client feels comfortable saying the reason for the search.
I investigate if there is any health problem, if there was a consultation with the urologist and the diagnosis, if you are undergoing or have undergone any other treatment, etc. Then I propose the treatment and explain the therapeutic tools to be used: tantric consultation, breathing, meditation and tantric massage, among other tips.
I usually start the session with breathing techniques, followed by sensitive massage and others techniques.
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It is a sensorial, soft, slow and sliding massage to activate bioelectricity and develop the potential to feel. This touch awakens the sensitivity of little-touched areas of the body, releases pent-up emotions, elevates sexual energy and can heal sexual dysfunctions, so that it begins to flow freely from the first to the seventh chakra, expanding to the extremities and the whole body begins to feel pleasure. With this work, a sensory re-education takes place, pleasure is blurred from the genital area, it is no longer restricted to it and becomes an experience of the whole body.
Then we enter the tantric massage and finally, the Lingam Massage to strengthen and tone the muscle so that it sustains high levels of energy, and the genital muscle chain is connected to the others forming a whole. Men may have unfamiliar orgasmic experiences, like orgasm without an erection. This takes away a great deal of anxiety that weighs on them, in addition to expanding the possibilities of pleasure enormously.
I emphasize that the focus on pleasure here has the objective of healing, self-knowledge, self-perception. Once this potential for pleasure is recovered, everything starts to flow better, creativity, confidence and self-esteem are restored and this reverberates in all aspects of man’s life.
4- Can masturbation and pornography lead to impotence or other sexual dysfunction? Why?
Yes it is true. Pornography damages sex life because it creates the illusion that sex is in that disconnected, aggressive way, without any loveliness, and with the aggravating factor that masturbation is almost always associated with it. So, the man has the illusion of being, in each episode, having sex with someone different. We are not dealing here with a moral issue, nor does this proposition contain a prejudiced view of masturbation, not least because it is necessary, it is an essential condition for establishing orgasmic potency. Healthy people masturbate healthily.
This would be the functional masturbation that is done with varied touches and loving connection with the body seeking to know itself, to have pleasure and relaxation. On the other hand, dysfunctional masturbation, practiced by the majority, made with strong, fast and repetitive, hurried movements, focused on releasing tension and expelling seminal fluid, causes various sexual dysfunctions, such as erectile impotence and orgasmic impotence. But the most common problem, resulting from dysfunctional masturbation, is delayed ejaculation: it begins with the delay or impossibility of completing sexual intercourse with the partner in a satisfactory manner, and it gets worse until the man is unable to ejaculate or masturbating. Another recurrent dysfunction is premature ejaculation, champion of male sexual dysfunctions. In these cases, treatment with tantric massage has achieved excellent results. So far we have focused on the issue of sexual dysfunctions, but compulsive masturbation, pornography and especially excessive exposure and contact, at an early age cause very serious emotional harm that requires psychoanalytic and psychiatric treatment. Tantric therapy in these cases can work together with these treatments and these professionals are starting to indicate. I emphasize that the dysfunctions discussed here are not always caused by exposure to pornography and exaggerated masturbation, and may have other causes such as illnesses, accidents, traumas, prolonged or extreme stress and others.
5- It is true that through tantric massage, the man starts to have an erection without having to use his imagination to stimulate himself. How does this happen?
The human being starts his sexual life with masturbation and needs to use fantasy as a resource that activates the brain to produce the necessary hormones to generate excitement and the physical conditions for orgasm. This fantasy experience is carried over to the sexual act, which is why we say that masturbation and primitive sex are psychogenic.
Tantric massage activates the sexual center located at the base of the spine, making the sexual energy rise and flow throughout the body, developing the potential for pleasure in the entire body, and the man starts to have an erection with sensory stimuli, which reach him through the five senses, mainly by touch, without resorting to fantasies. With sensory stimuli, hormone production is activated, and excitement leads to the erection that happens naturally.
6- Does tantric massage dispense with traditional treatments?
Tantric massage has achieved exceptional results and can even dispense with some traditional treatments such as hormone supplementation, if continued, and many healings have taken place in tantric practices, as well as in other practices and alternative therapies. The truth is that cures happen because therapies help the body to find the path of self-healing, as the body has all the necessary knowledge to heal itself.
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