The Beginner’s Guide for my Tantra Massage

Here in this article I provide complete beginners guide about my sessions, links and information for those who still don’t understand how my session works and especially about Tantra massage.

Hi, my name is May Gonzalez, Tantric Massage Teacher, Yoga Teacher, Sexual Dysfunctions Specialist according to Tantra Lineage Traditions, Ayurveda masseuse, Reiki Healer, Sex Coach, Post Graduate in Human Sexuality with highest licensed qualifications in the Art of Tantra and Energy Healing, works in the field of Tantra since 2016, formed by the International Yoga Alliance and having specialized in matriarchal matrilineal tantra (knowledge passes woman by woman) in different places in the world such as Egypt, Bali, Ireland, Brazil, Greece, Spain among others, travels the world looking for new knowledge.

She has served over 10,000+ people (Woman, men and Couple) in person the last 5 years in Ireland and Portugal, given 1:1 mentorships and since 2020 has been providing online courses such as orgasmic development for women, and workshops, all related to Tantra and Sacred Sexuality.

What is Tantra Massage?

Tantra means the path to enlightenment and liberation, for anyone on a spiritual path also is a philosophy and a set of practices that form the basis for our healing and transformation. It revolves around working with the three most powerful human experiences. These are sexual desire, love, and our desire for freedom.

Read more: Tantra philosophy explanation

Tantra massage is part of the system of Tantra and means this is a type of massage that is known for its effective elements, that awakes our sexual energy. However, there is no sexual content. The primary objective of this type of massage is to achieve spiritual and physical harmony also promote energy rebalancing, overcome trauma and blockages, undo limiting beliefs, awaken sexual energy and expand the capacity to experience pleasure. It has nothing to do with sex or masturbation.
It also involves pranayama, meditation, and mindfulness elements.

Read more: What is tantric massage?

I emphasize that awakening the sexual energy in my Tantra Massage has the objective of healing, self-knowledge, self-perception. Once this pleasure potential is recovered, everything starts to flow better, creativity, confidence and self-esteem are restored and this reverberates in all aspects of human life.

Tantra massage has had exceptional results and can even dispense with some traditional treatments such as hormone supplementation if continued, and many healing shave taken place in tantric practices as well as in other alternative practices and therapies. The truth is that healing happens because therapies help the body find the path to self-healing, as the body has all the knowledge it needs to heal itself.

What is Authentic Tantra Massage?

Our body has the ability to expand and release indescribable sensations, authentic tantric massage combines body work with authentic tantric principles of how energy works in our being.

The authentic teachings of Tantra come from a lineage passed from master to disciples, either by a teacher or Guru who studies the body, mind and sexual energy in a sacred and authentic way according to the sacred books, usually a teaching lineage does not have a Finally, a Tantrika is always in search of new knowledge and understanding about the human body and its capacity for expansion, liberation and healing.

Tantric massage is a way to relieve pain and suffering that modern people carry in their daily lives, physical contact helps us feel loved, desired and complete.

In my authentic massage I use the combination of many techniques such as Yoga, meditation, pranayama, ayurvedic massage, marmatherapy, body energy points, body energetic diaphragm, body energy flow, chakras and astrology is also aligned with the personality of each client as well .

Authenticity also comes from studies such as human anatomy, authentic tantric studies and Yoga.

Read more: Difference between Tantra, authentic Tantra massage, body to body and sensual massage

Another technique is also used, is Semen Retention, used by great martial arts masters, Yogis and advanced Tantrikas, much sought after today for those who want, for example, a treatment for sexual dysfunction such as premature ejaculation, increased pleasure, among others. many other benefits it can bring to a couple’s life, such as increased energy and vitality, channeling, multiple orgasms and dry orgasms.

My tantric massage is a practical guide that I offer my clients, knowledge about themselves, understanding and understanding, healing and pleasure.

How Tantra Massage Works in our body?

There are 3 types of sexual energy That I work with:

Unawakened, arousal, orgasmic sexual energy.

Unawakened sexual energy is available to us all the time as a latent force within us that we are often unaware of, like that desire to accomplish something, but which is always postponed.

In all my sessions, we access this energy consciously, I’m going to move this root energy, which will bring you more body awareness. That energy will provide you with power and vitality behind your actions and existence.

We first learn to access this inexhaustible source of energy through breathing, visualization, and intention. Some basic techniques will be taught before the session begins, choose your session wisely.

After accessing this potent energy, we can begin to awaken this latent energy. Arousal is when we become more aware of this inner strength. Our entire system heats up, the Lingam becomes moist and sometimes erect, the nipples become erect and swollen, our breathing becomes deeper, among other sensations that will be explained before the session that only tantric massage can provide.

This hotter sexual energy starts to move on its own and with the Tantra massage practices I apply, this powerful force in the body can nourish the nervous system, organs, glands and cells. As soon as we boil, one can reach the peak of orgasmic energy.

These processes may be known to some, but the intention of tantric massage is to provide awakening, body awareness and redirection of that sexual energy without wasting it.

The orgasmic energy is the most difficult of the three sexual energies to work with, as it is a fire itself! Starting with unexcited and then aroused sexual energy will help prepare us to work with orgasmic energy. Orgastic energy is the most poignant of these three, and therefore it is important to keep in mind our greater goal of harnessing this great force of nature that arises from within. The goal is the same: keep this source of energy within the body for health, vitality and youth.

It is only during orgasmic energy that dry orgasms occur, but one sexual energy depends on the other to flow.

Awakening is an exclusive technique created by me so that you can access these 3 forces within you, but people are different, some can only do it in one session, others need more sessions.

Elements integrate in the Tantra Massage


​The purpose of this stage is to establish a bond of trust, fine-tune objectives, identify the individual's comfortable limits through active listening to identify possible traumas, emotional blocks, inadequacies and/or sexual dysfunctions, as well as the demands that arise during the process. conversation.​


Before the session, we are gonna talk about how all the Tantra Massage works, creating an environment of security and confidentiality to share your specific needs and searches for the objective development of the work. This decision is linked to what the interacting brings to the session, whether the search for more bodily pleasure, sexual dysfunction, dissociation from the body, dissatisfaction, greater awareness and others. That conversation has the possibility of directing the massage and then passing on some breathing, connecting, moving and attention-directing techniques that will be fundamental to the process. Sex Coach is intended for those who would like to understand more about their own sexuality, the body as an inexhaustible source of energy, types of orgasm, body awareness and genital reflexology and how to build the path to orgasm step by step.


Relaxing the mind, without looking at the past, the memories, or looking at the future, allow experiencing life in the present moment. In this way, we create a space in which ecstasy is free to grow. The right breathing technique also plays an important part in Tantra Massage. By changing the intensity and pace of breathing, especially if it follows a certain rhythm, we can influence the intensity and length of orgasm.Sex Coach is intended for those who would like to understand more about their own sexuality, the body as an inexhaustible source of energy, types of orgasm, body awareness and genital reflexology and how to build the path to orgasm step by step.


Do you have problems to speak? Your body is your instrument, and poor alignment or unnecessary tension can affect how well you express yourself. Do you talk about your feelings? How do you feel? Sharing feelings and emotions is fundamental to mental and physical well-being. Express your voice causes relief and avoids bigger problems in the long run. Express your voice, speak.


The objective of this stage is to awaken the body's bioelectricity in the physical body by touching the skin. In an extremely subtle way, we awaken the body to a subtle sensory touch. It is important to consider that the circulation of this electricity is largely responsible for the physical, mental and emotional balance of our body. Many diseases are caused by the lack of this electrical supply in the body. These electrical stimuli gradually become more potent and become muscle spasms – they are muscle movements that appear in the form of intense waves of pleasure. The increase in volume of these waves gives rise to an incredible orgasmic experience. What happens then is what we call “Dry Orgasm”, or “Orgasmic waves”. Exploring and becoming aware of the orgasmic potential that our bodies carry, we allow the experimentation of other possibilities of pleasure under a new perspective: a path for the growth and expansion of consciousness.


The ancient art of India Ayurvedic Massage is more than just a relaxing massage. This massage has been recommended by Tantric practitioners for its soothing/loving touch vs the more erotic/arousing style. Ayurvedic massage is a beautiful expression of love, however when a person has undergone severe trauma, the body needs to learn to relax again in order to calm the mind and eventually learn to trust; that is why Ayurvedic massage is preferable before introducing any type of Tantric massage/techniques.


At this stage the work is focused, oversized and intensified in your Lingam. It is important to emphasize that these genital manipulations are techniques that have nothing to do with masturbation, but with deeply studied and researched stimuli, specifically applied with the aim of increasing the sensory aspect of the genital region, providing a type of pleasure and altered states of awareness and awareness never experienced in the usual masturbatory or sexual manipulations. Various types of touch are used, aiming to bring greater oxygenation and blood irrigation to the entire pelvic area, activating reflex points and providing varied sensations that we rarely have the opportunity to experience. The conscious touch is a very powerful method of pure presence and connection, security and confidence that change the way your body understands pleasure. Making your body understand the messages and intuitions about feeling pleasure and have a great potential to deeply support and heal.

This is how I conduct a Tantra massage session.

Each session is tailored to each person’s needs.

Work that I am extremely grateful for all the transformations, discoveries, gifts, stories, awareness, exchanges, shares, relationships and beauties that it has given me and gives me every opportunity to experience and attend.

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